I met C. He is a mechanic where I bring my vehicle. Car that for 6 months collects the trifles so I was often to frequent the garage.

Since 2 months, it is C. who takes care of my vehicle. I am referenced as her client. Everyone is nice to me by force but especially him.

For 20 days, after a repair, C. has recovered my number in the client file saying for a "after sales service", (after a sub heard: "I will leave you my personal number or case or on the invoice, has he says Yes I take it I answered (he had handed me poles several times before, there I seized).

Days of texting followed, pleasant, curious, confidences, during 5 days, and in the evening until sleep.

I showed that he made me curious. He seemed delighted, on the same wavelength. Then he told me he was in danger with his breakup from time to time. We talked about it, he wanted to know my story (I've been separated since he was a parent). And we concluded the conversation that nothing happened by chance, that a good reason would be explained one day.

Our exchanges calmed down when he was on vacation with his daughter. With once in a while a message just to know if it's okay or a brief answer to my messages.

Since he took over he seemed distant. Fewer messages, less curiosity .... We traded on the car a little Wednesday on his return.

And in the evening I dared to admit that I missed her curiosity. Do not judge him.

In my head he was no longer interested, and I understood and respected that he might not be ready. He had said at first not to be a flirty or other, that he was curious about me that I seemed to him real.

He answered my confidence. Apologizing, he had trouble managing his time and he left to be curious ... Attentive, showing himself listening ...

But still distant compared to the beginnings.