Réponse:

Opening Remark: Due to the difficult circumstances and expectations surrounding us, I believe that answering this question is a must.

Part One:

at 18-20 : dedicate myself and time to my education to secure a comfortable life.

at 25 : settle in a my dream apartment with the help of my dream job and finally allow myself to relax.

in my 30s: reflect on my life and be grateful for everything I've done with the love of my life.

in my 40s : surround myself with the love of my family and friends.

at retirement age: travel the world and explore alone/alongside my lover.

at the end of my life: surround myself with my loved ones in my final moments in this world.

part two :

• settling down is one of my main goals and I'm concerned i won't achieve that due to constant desire for learning. I need to learn how to let go and that it is ok to relax for a bit because I have already done enough.
• Growing up, i have never expected myself to become a parent but as the years pass by I realized that family is important. I must be patient, loving and determined to be able to build the family that will take care of me when i am no longer capable.

part three :

• Books have helped me grow, they opened my imagination and changed my way of thinking. I would like to pass them to my children as they are my most prized possession from my past. And i hope it might be a away for them to connect with me more.
• One day, when we are having lunch with my friends i would pull out a box filled with pictures of us from our high school/ college days and we would all laugh and cry over the lovely memories. That would be my gift from me to them. So they could always remember me in the way i did.

conclusion : Nothing in life can be expected, of course as it always surprises you. But it is always nice to have some things planned to keep you looking for the future with anticipation.